Dear Insert Name Here,

I don’t like it when people tell me they love me. You are not in love with me, believe me! I’m nothing but trouble and you can’t save me. I don’t want to be a heart breaker, I just want to be myself. I don’t think any of you really understand. There is no purpose to pursue me. I am not interested at this time, nor am I currently accepting applications for a counterpart. You can’t change my mind so, please don’t try. I don’t want to lead anyone on. I'm holding out. I'm going to wait until I know it's right. I guess posting a blog about this sort of thing is a pretty impersonal way to handle turning someone(s) down. I’m sorry. I just feel so bad and find it impossible when I’m in the position to have to tell you to your face(s). From the bottom of my heart, in the least wanting to hurt someone’s spirit kind of way, I don't want a boyfriend right now. Thank you for your consideration and good luck with future endeavors.